Hello! I’m
Paula Maddison Green

I am a Cognitive Behavioural Therapy Practitioner. I own and manage the North East Women and Men Against Domestic Violence Facebook page and from this through to Trauma Stop UK CIC Ltd. We support those suffering with trauma and abuse, anxiety and those with PTSD or symptoms of this. I am a specialist in Rape Trauma. We also now offer the first male Victim of Domestic Abuse safe space facility in the North East of England and wrap around support and a peer mentoring scheme. We also offer education to men about Domestic Abuse as a victim and the longer term effects of their abuse on their lives.

I am insured through the BABCP, A full Member of ACCPH and an Accredited Trainer in Mental Health Awareness.

Our Services

Private Cognitive Behavioural Therapy

At Trauma Stop UK CIC we are passionate about mental health and helping people to find a way through their current difficulties.

Male Victim Refuge Support

We offer at Trauma Stop UK CIC refuge services for male victims of Domestic Abuse.  We only have a small facility here in the North of England which consists of two first floor rooms and a ground floor facility that would suit an older male with perhaps some mobility issues yet could live independently without personal care as we are not CQC registered.

Men can make a self referral or they can be referred via statutory services, the police or Adult Social Care.  Housing Benefit is accepted here and if a man is on benefits then he will be asked to contribute towards the utility bills in addition to the Housing benefit.

All male victims will be offered the chance to make a full police disclosure in time, however as a Police check will happen as part of admission it will be necessary for the man to disclose that he has children as part of the checking mechanism.  Being a male victim being brought into a refuge facility WILL NOT stop a man from being able to maintain contact with his children. (Please refer to the Family Tree Centre CIC offer below).

Criteria for admission is as follows:

Male victim of Domestic Abuse aged 18-100.

The male will be subject to a police check to ensure they have NO notifiable persons of interest conflicts (such as convictions of being an offender or an abuser).  He must not have addictions of substance, medication or alcohol misuse and no incidents of psychosis or a diagnosis of schizophrenia or bi polar disorder.

A DASH Risk assessment will be undertaken by the setting and a further needs based Risk Assessment of the individual will take place. Once assessment is passed then the individual will be asked to sign an emergency accommodation contract of behaviour for the duration of stay.

The support nominee for the individual will then house, provide clothing and basic initial food until the individual has been set up with their local food bank.  The support worker will then make the person feel safe and give them their control to make their own life choices, register with healthcare providers, dentists and then apply for social housing in the longer term with the Local Authority.

Whilst in the emergency accommodation NO GUESTS other than healthcare professionals, statutory agencies or third sector support services are allowed.  The premises is alcohol and smoke free and healthy eating and drinking is encouraged to ensure the individual once feeling safe adopts a healthy lifestyle and takes care of themselves.

The social Enteprise has close connections with an NACCC Accredited  Children’s Contact Centre in the County Durham area that accepts referrals from the whole of the North East and this Centre also provides counselling and family mediation and Supervised contact for children with their parents.  Trauma Stop UK CIC can facilitate contact with alienated parents through this Accredited Centre.

Educational Sessions

I offer educational sessions in helping people to understand Domestic Abuse through a programme called The Lifeback Programme.  This helps the individuals taking part to understand their own mental health following Domestic Abuse.

This is a specific MALE VICTIM Course and is NOT BASED ON FEMALE MODELS OF ABUSE yet put together in a trauma informed way and by men that have lived experience of Domestic Abuse.

I charge an hourly rate and can offer business managers and managers and multi agency professionals to help them deal with their staff mental health.

I also deliver to a group of Male Victims for free to those who are within the refuge facility and being supported by this social enterprise.

Remote Mental Health Awareness

I offer remote Mental Health Awareness Training to all, including multi agency professionals who wish to gain a greater knowledge of Mental Health issues.

Testimonials

Paula is a very caring and competent young lady. I know of a couple of people that she has helped flee from domestic violence, she really does go above and beyond to assist victims. I wish her all the luck in the world with all the fabulous work she is doing now and will continue to do so in the future, god bless you Paula you really are a blessing. If there were more people like you in this world, more lives could be saved.

Mom of a victim of domestic violence,November 2020

Paula was fantastic in helping me flee my ex – partner. She went above and beyond and I would not have got away from my abuse if it wasn’t for her. Thank you x

Mum with 2 childrenBristol, UK

Paula has been such an amazing person to myself and my 2 daughters.
As well as helping me overcome domestic abuse I can’t thank her enough for everything she has done. From helping and supporting me throughout my pregnancy when I have felt really depressed and anxious throughout my illness when pregnant, she has been there and has even attended appointments with multi agency professionals with me. Thank you for everything. It really does mean a-lot.

Mother of 2 little girlsStockton On-Tees, Teesside, UK

May 2024

Paula continues to inspire me everyday.  Her passion and advocacy is authentic and intelligent. She delivers with great patience, empathy, insight and impact.  Thanking your beautiful brain and your panel at Amazon this week for Mental Health Awareness Week was amazing – I have such overwhelming feedback about you all, thank you.  Powerful was my favourite word – keep doing what you do, you should all be rightly very proud!

Trisha Manners Strategic Partner/Employment Relations Board Member AMAZON Darlington

Useful Links

NHS Tees, Esk and Wear Valley NHS Foundation

Single point of access for mental health crisis services: 0300 0200317 This number is available for 24 hours a day, 7 days a week offering callers a series of options which will then divert you to the appropriate services

Catalyst Stockton

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